Fed Up, Dension Ordering Problems

[BRUCE182]

Went to have my Dension ice link fitted today and got completley messed around by the shop,he was going to fit me a connects 2 kit for the same price £140.When i told him i want the Dension with the mini cradle he told me it would not fit my car.I've tried some different dealers some say they fit some say the don't.Does any one know if the Dension kit that says post 2000 with VDO tuner or tunerlist will fit mine that says update list.And where the cheapest place to buy will these two do?
http://www.cooltopia.com/product.php?xProd=6306&xSec=200

AND

http://www.gadget-and-gizmos.co.uk/dension-icelink-renault-update-p-177.html

THANKS